Soooo, based on my last entry, should I tell The Lawyer that his behavior at the date bothered me? At the time, I really acted like it was not a big deal, and then of course I rewarded him with sexual activity, and then when he apologized I said it was okay. I'm realizing that I just totally gave him an answer that was not truthful. What will keep him from doing this again? ...OR, should I just let it go and see what happens next? I'm inclined to let it go for now, but what would you do?
ALSO, here's the latest and greatest winner: http://www.match.com/profile/showprofile.aspx?uid=Nbc+6ZeWjL4yqKV9jd+Ceg%3d%3d&trackingid=0&TP=D&Handle=kloks33&Bannerid=512884&lid=107
He wrote to me today. He doesn't have cats, but he does live alone...problem is that I could not imagine a more unimaginative profile. It says to me that this person has NOTHING to say, isn't trying, doesn't think much of himself, and based on the stuff he said, I'd peg him for a reformed alcoholic, or a relative of one. There's nothing wrong with that, but I know'em when I see'em. Bets anyone?
Oh AND, all he wrote to me was "Did you grow up in (insert town here)?" Way to wow me -- just like that high school education you have and whopping salary range. Ooops, was that mean? As a matter of fact, he does not live in that town ALONE with that salary. Bet #2 -- he'll tell me he used to live alone but recently moved back in with his parents....ya, suuuure you did.
Since I am clearly desperate, I will write back. Plus I have to know if I win my bet. AND, he makes The Lawyer look much better already, even after Saturday. Oh my god, I am mean. Whatever, fuck it. You date a million idiots and then see how sensitive you are...
2 comments:
I revert to lessons learned from "If a man answers, Hang up." Fabulous 60's movie on training your husband according to puppy training lessons. If a dog poops in the house, you immediately must rub his face in it to learn not to repeat the behavior. If you don't catch him immediately after, they forget and will not make connection between the undesirable behavior and the correction. Similarly, you did not immediately rub the lawyers face in his mess when he pooped on your date...making the correction now will have little reward. Just note to make the correction immediately next time. Do not reward undesirable behavior...even if they're cute and you want to throw them a little affection, hold off until they sit, roll over or buy you a glass of wine. That's my $0.02. Lovez ewe.
re: The Lawyer, I say, "Next!!"
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